Well as many already know it is human nature to talk behind peoples backs. I do it, you do it, your mother does it and all almost everyone in the world does it. However, i think there comes a point where its too much? I mean when you have something to say about ever fucking person walking down the street, i think there should be some sort of self-reflection. perhaps maybe a...Whats so wrong with myself that i feel i need to put down others to make myself feel better? Or maybe a what did this person ever do to me for me to call her a hippo, or make fun of his coat? This was all brought on by a friend that has the tendencies to make comments and be out-right rude to everyone, even her own friends ( granted we all do this. it just really got to me)this friend made a few rude comments about people then later, un intentionally made a rude comment toward me. EVERYONE is different. you have no right to say how people live there lives no matter how much you don't like it. How the hell does what they do, how they chose to live, or how they look like effect you at all. It doesn't, you can ignore it. (and for those wise asses out there that say "well, i have to look at those people isn't a legitimate answer") But, anyway i just want to bring to peoples attenion things like this, to see why we do these things, and try to find anwser as to why all the love is gone what happened to suporting each other, what happened to the golden rule "Treat people they same way you want to be treated?" I'm so sick of all this negative bullshit. as for my friend i know she is sorry and i forgive her but she doesn't understand how much her words can hurt a person. Some people aren't strong, some people can handle hurtful words as well as others. People don't realize that words hurt so much more then physical violence can. (yes, i know Sticks and Stones and I'm rubber bullshit) Words stick with you when physical pain can go away, and when you hear something so much you start to believe it. So, basically what I'm asking of all you guys is to Think about what you say before you say. Think about who it can effect; who it can hurt.

Sorry to the people that were involved in the events in this story, I had to say something i was to upset to go off when it happened so I'm venting.
(I know that someone that day didn't know about it and thought i was being a bitch, so now u know that whole story)

Thanks for letting me get this out.

Sinead